"What's Real?"

We have all been in a situation that didn’t match what we were feeling inside.

We say we're okay and we really feel like we’re not. As a matter of fact, we are professionals at this one, it's like our default answer, because we don't want to seem like a complainer. We don't want anyone in our business, we know that eventually  we will be okay, so why feed into this feeling of not feeling okay? No one can help us anyway, right?

But that's not okay, because these feeling can spiral into dark depression, and we may need to seek help, someone to talk to. There is someone that can help us. 

We think one thing and say another, and then we wonder why we feel unhappy and unsatisfied with our lives. It feels good inside to say how we truly feel, to live in our truth, and speak it. Some of us are so accustomed to shutting everyone out, that we find it hard to make our thoughts and words match. Whenever I feel this way, I go silent. I go inside to the Divine for answers, for relief. I meditate, I seclude, I don't look for ways to distract myself, I look to the things that have always brought me joy. 

We may not be happy with our position right now, but we can be honest with ourselves about it, so that we can work towards changing it. I am in a constant state of evolving. I look to ways to enrich my experiences in life. I look for ways to elevate my vibration to attract more pleasurable experiences in my life. I don't care what position I am in, I look to get the most out of it. I change the ways that I look at it, so that I can see it from all sides. I always ask myself, "what is this situation trying to teach me?" I am in this position for a reason, it's part of my destiny, so "what is it showing me?" 

I have been frustrated with my circumstances many times in life. But I learned something in those moments, the more I focused on the circumstance and not the lesson, the worse I felt, and the worse it felt like it became. Focusing on an unpleasant circumstance can make it feel unbearable. Wherever we focus our attention, it grows.

When we can honestly match our thoughts with our words and feel secure about it in our actions, this is our true authentic self. It a feeling like none other when we live in our truth. When we don't worry about who's watching, what they're saying, what they're thinking, if they're judging, we can live in true harmony with ourselves. 

Anything else is a mirage, and won’t bring us true joy, and joy is the place where we manifest great experiences from. Being focused on what people think, who supports us, what they may say, only distracts us from our Divine potentials and destinations. 

Living in a state of fabrication takes too much of our good energy. I've been this person until one time I almost died, and I said, "no more." If you don't like who I am, then that's fine, because I am alright with me. Knowing that the Most High loves me, and looks out for me constantly, fills me with unspeakable joy.  I am a loner by nature, but I didn't recognize this for years as I kept wondering around aimlessly, with people who are no where to be found now. I wasn't living in my truth.

​To be real with one’s self and real with others, your thoughts, words, feelings, and actions must all be in unison. When all of those thing come together inside of you, outside of you will glow. People will see your shine coming from miles away.

You won't hide anymore. You let go of whatever's been holding you down, and your walk becomes lighter. 

When we’re thinking one thing and saying another, it’s fallacious. When we’re feeling one thing and doing the opposite, we are  betraying our own self. It doesn't matter what anyone says, we must do what we we're called to do. How do we know that we are on the right road and moving in the direction of our purpose, it begins to feel good. Even through the uncomfortable process of it, you know that there's something on the other side.  

When our thoughts, words, feelings, and actions are all together, it not only creates personal freedom for us, but it brings forth our manifestations quickly. The Universe comes to our feet, clears the way, and guides our path.

Thought and feeling must be one, what you’re doing you must feel like doing or you won't be unhappy. How can we do anything with love that we don’t feel like doing in our heart?

We can't keep wasting time. 

Thanks for reading, I bow to the Divine that I see in you. 

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Quel

blogger, writer, poet, radio show host