THE ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE
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"The Secret is in You"
Give your attention to something and love it, and it will give all of its secrets to you.
When we give our attention to someone, and show genuine care for them, they will began to open up to us. They will start sharing parts of themselves that they have kept hidden away from everyone else. They will feel like it's okay to feel vulnerable in sharing the most intimate parts of themselves with you.
Have you ever gotten close to someone because they showed genuine concern for your well-being, your feelings, and you showed your true face to them? Did you tell them things that you thought you would never share with anyone else? Did you feel comfortable in doing so? You felt that it was a safe space to share your private feelings with them, and so you did, right? You felt a love connection so you did so, right?
It is known Universal law that whatever we focus on, we get more of it. When we give our attention to anything, it begins to show up more in our lives. When we show love and attention to someone, we get to see them, we get to really know them. You may know someone on the surface, you have seen their mask, but if you haven't given your attention and shown care for them, you don't know them on a deeper level. This doesn't just apply to people, it applies in all subjects and aspects of our lives.
Whatever your passion is, if it is to write, to paint, to sing, to dance, design, an athletic sport, whatever it is, when you give your full attention to it, love it, and nurture it, it grows and expands. Love has a feeling of expansion, while spite and criticism decreases, and restricts. Whenever we feel disdain, fear, and frustration towards anything we can feel the restriction inside of us. You can literally feel the tightness of fear, anger, and lower emotions. But when we feel love, we experience love, and it feels like wide open space. The world opens up for us whenever we love something, things flow to us easily, and gracefully.
The more we study our craft, the hours that we put into it, the greater the focus that we give it, the better we become at it. We can't get better at something that we avoid, or something that we are afraid of. When you know what you want to do, throw your whole self into it, give it your heart, and it will reveal its secrets to you.
I move forward like a freight train
I don't have time to think about what I fear
I push forward full steam ahead
I don't stop unless I have to
I prepare and keep on top of my maintenance
I take good care of my engine too
I go in the direction of love
I see far ahead too
There are Divine destinations
That I must get to
If we criticize money, it will flee. If we criticize people in regards to money, money will flee from us. Money goes where it is appreciated. Money goes where it holds value and will be used for something valuable. Money goes where it is given attention, where it's cared for, and it stays away from people and places that criticizes it. It keeps away from where it's perceived as dirty.
Money is an energy just like everything else in our lives. What are you saying to your money? Are you grateful every time you circulate your money for something that you want or need? Are you grateful when you pay your bills, or are you angry about the bill? Are you focusing on your money and how to grow it, and have a better relationship with it? Or are you thinking in terms of scarcity when it comes to money? Do you feel like money is hardly around? Do you feel like you don't have enough? Let me ask you this... Do you feel that you have enough for your every day needs? Because it's what we feel, that will be revealed.
In order to have more of something, we must have gratitude and love for it. If we aren't grateful for what we have, how can we seriously expect to have more? We get whatever we feel, so if we feel on a subconscious level that there is never enough, there will never be enough.
This works the same way with love. If we feel we aren't lovable, we won't receive the love that we desire, because we will constantly feel like we don't deserve that love. We will get the love that we feel like we deserve, nothing more, nothing less.
If we put our attention on ourselves, attention on loving ourselves, appreciating ourselves, we will learn the secrets within ourselves. All of the questions that we have been asking ourselves, asking God about our lives, our purpose, and why we are here will be revealed to us through putting our attention on ourselves. When we focus on the inside of us, we meet true spiritual growth. This is where the secrets live on the inside. Everything is made on the inside, and reveals itself on the outside.
Being close to ourselves, getting to know who you really are, learning about what is good for you, and what is not for you, comes through knowing you. If you don't know yourself, you will find yourself going along with things and people who are not meant for you. You will get hurt, and then you will realize that you weren't in alignment with your true nature. You weren't listening to God, and you were suppressing the inner voice that was whispering the truth to you through various ways and clues.
You know, you have always known.
You don't think, you know,
you don't think you know, you know,
you will always know, and you have always known.
We know, we may deny, but we know. Vibration has never been hidden, and never can be hidden, we just ignore it. You know when someone truly loves you, you know when they don't. You know when they don’t like you. I stay away from people who don’t like me. If you put your focus on how someone feels about you, what you feel will intensify. Whatever you think that they feel about you will smother you, because you're focused on it intensely, especially if it's unpleasant.
Let's talk briefly about the word smother: s-mother. Don't be a smothering mother. Some mothers smother subconsciously because they were smothered by their own mother. Mothers smother out of fear. They smother to ensure that their children don't become like them. They want their children to be and do better than them. All smothering comes from needing to heal. It's not for mothers to seek validation through their children. Extreme applied pressure brings a burst from secrets. Our children belong to God.
Unpleasant feelings press down harder on you than pleasant ones. You will know a vibration by how it feels, does it feel light, or does it feel heavy? If it's heavy, it's not for you. How does it make you feel? Are you apprehensive? Are you gravitating towards it? When you give your attention to it, you will re-member.
You will be spending your valuable time focused on something that you cannot control when you focus on what someone else is doing, what they feel about you or don't feel about you. Hurtful experiences can lead us inside, where we need to be. They trigger us to work on our inner relationship with ourselves, leading us closer to walk in our true purpose, and focus on our relationship with the Omnipresent that's always present.
When we want to know more about something, we must focus on it. It's how we learned anything that we didn't know before, it's how we became good at it. When we want to know the deeper inner workings of something, we must love it, feel joy about it, and give it our most undivided attention to it. When we love it, it will love us back, and give us clarity on its obscurities. It will show us the way, the tao, and it will reward us in every way along the way.
This is the secret to knowing you. This is the secret to knowing love. This is the secret to knowing God, the Infinite.
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We Are Evolving
I didn't know what this entry would be about, it's like a mixture of things, of everything. It's been a month since I have blogged, it's 3 months into the year, and so much has happened within us and all around us. I am not just going to say that so much has happened within me and all around me, because we are all going through something internally, and externally. We are in Saturn Pluto transit as well as the first Mercury Retrograde of the year. So this is a big transformation for everyone, no one gets by unscathed.
It is best that we don't take people too seriously or personally during this retrograde transit, just let people be how they're going to be. Don't argue with them, or stress yourself out trying to get your point across, it's like there's a block, they won't hear you, or understand you well. True story, this has already happened to me today. The Mercury Retrograde goes into post phase on March 10th, and that's where we will see all of our manifestations come to life from the pre-phase. We will be reaping what we have sown. It began on February 16th and the post-shadow phase ends on March 29th.
It isn't a time to be worried about anything that we have planted. I look at Mercury Retrograde differently now, as in what is it trying to teach me. To retro means to redo, to re-visit, re-vise, go back and fix things, and this our chance. There is a special kind of energy available to us at this time period. The Universe is always working to for us, never against us. I heard someone say that God has your back, not the Universe, and it was so confusing to me, because God is everything. How is God not the Universe, if God created the Universe? There are countless names for God, and people use different names, but we are all talking about the same energy, the same Source, that of which everything has come from, and everything returns to.
I also made a commitment to blogging since this is a leap year, and my youngest son was born on a leap year, tomorrow is his birthday. I remember my doctor asking me if I could hold on for one more day so that I could have him on March 1st, I just wanted him to come here safely, it didn't matter much about his birthday.
So I have an extra day in February to make the month for getting a blog entry in, yay! I love writing and it could be about anything, but this blog is about us, and how we can grow internally so that we can flourish externally. I am grateful that you have stuck this thing out with me, I truly appreciate you supporting this blog.
It appears that nothing is ever perfect, but all things are in perfection, because all things are Divine, as everything has its purpose. On the surface it may not appear so, but even the most cruelest things serve a purpose, and tell a story.
When I look at my life and the things that I have experienced, I know that I am here for a special purpose. I have also come to feel that I am settling karmic debts in this lifetime so that I won't experience them in another. I have wondered why some of things that I have experienced happened for me, but I know that there is a larger purpose, and it's not about me as much as I think it is.
You may want to debate on this, but there is no one reason why we have come. We have all come here to elevate beyond our spiritual level, to be guardian angels, and to do Divine work. All of our experiences happened for us to awaken us to the illusion that we have engulfed ourselves in on this plane-t or plan-et.
We become deceived by the very senses that were put in place to protect us. We get caught up in this life in this place like we don't leave it all here. We forget that we are travelers, and we are passing through, but we have some important things to do, as we pass through. We have experiences here, and we emotionally attach ourselves to them, so much so that they will follow us when we leave if we don't detach from them. We forget that we were born to die. And when I speak of dying, I am talking about the deaths that we experience over and over here. It's like we die 1,000 times before we ever leave the plane, spiritually we are re-born again and again. Then we experience a physical death, just of this body and the inner workings of it on this plane, but it's not the end of us.
When you feel like people don't hear you, remember that they can only hear you from their own level of consciousness. This is why your words resonate with some people, and not so much with others. Some people will never hear what you're saying, no matter how loud you're saying it, no matter how much you say it, they have to experience it for themselves. We experience things how we see them, we understand things from our own perspective. Whenever we read something, we read it and relate it to ourselves.
Whatever happens in your life is no mistake, it has a purpose, even if you don't understand it. When we began to compare our lives to others, we can find ourselves feeling horrible. When we wonder why things seem to go so smoothly for another more than for ourselves, we make ourselves feel miserable. We can't see happiness unless we're looking within. With this Saturn-Pluto transit I am sure that you feel a shift within, and if you don't, just give it some time, you will. "Every occurrence of Saturn – Pluto conjunction is a relatively rare event that happens approximately every 33–38 years and lasts slightly over two years. Saturn – Pluto conjunction can be seen as a “global Saturn return” of karmic nature that applies to the whole world."timenomad.app/posts/astrology/event/2019/03/14/timeline-of-saturn-pluto-conjunction-of-2020-and-its-karmic-meaning.html
But this post is not just about this transit and retrogrades, I include those occurrences because they affect us all, whether we know it or not. It's better that we know, so that we don't think that we're going nuts. And then we will also understand why so many people are exiting the plane, and exiting our lives. You can research more of it on your own.
Since the new year, I have experienced ups and downs in all areas of my life, from health, to business, to relationships. I don't any area of my life hasn't been put under a microscope for me to focus on and deal with. If I could ask the Universe for anything, it would be more awareness. I aim to be aware of how I treat people, how I feel when I am around someone, how I feel when I am alone, aware in my choices, and aware of my thoughts. One could never have enough awareness. I truly believe that everything happens as it supposed to, but wouldn't you like to make the choice that would bring the most desired outcome for you? God is in control and I say that again and again to myself, especially when something happens that is uncomfortable or unwanted for me.
Sometimes we become so focused on what happened or didn't happen for us that we miss out on golden opportunities. We may not ever understand why, but we do have to keep going. On this plane, and even when we exit, we are always coming and going, it never stops, it never ends. I have held onto one thing, missing out on another. We say we let go, but then when the conversation comes up, we realize that there is still something there that's nudging at us.
When we are going through tragedy or unfortunate situations, it becomes difficult to shift our minds to bring forth the opposite of what we're experiencing, yet we want things to change. Nothing can change without us changing first. We don't have the control to change a single person on this Earth, not even our children. We can only change what's happening within ourselves, and then the outer environment will begin to change itself.
It's what we believe on a deep subconscious level that will happen, and that happens for us. If we believe that we will always be in a certain situation, that will be true. If we believe that it will never happen for us, whatever it is, that will prove true also. The hardest time that I've had in my life of shifting is what I believe about my health. See with health you become submersed in your senses of what's happening in your body and to you. You feel the pain and the symptoms, so it becomes difficult to shift your mind and heart that you are getting better, that something different is happening for you. But it never shifts, it never gets better, until you get better on the inside.
This is where subconsciousness reprogramming comes in. We must change our program, interrupt our program, break our program, to reprogram. It is a struggle to stay in the uncomfortable space not returning to our comfortable misery. And the subconscious mind will create scenarios cloaked in all kinds of situations and excuses, so that we can return to the old, the old that really no longer serves us. I have been working on my subconscious programming for over 2 years now, and it's still a constant practice. It's like everything else that we do in life, we must practice to make perfect. We learn through repetition. We develop habits through repetition. What are you repeating? What are you continuously telling yourself? What is your inner voice constantly repeating? This is what becomes of us. This becomes our life. This becomes our truth.
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"You Get Another Chance"
You get another chance, as long as you breathe. We get chance after chance throughout lifetimes upon lifetimes. Sometimes we can react to circumstances in our lives like we won't get another chance. We hold onto things that have long left us, outgrown us, and mistreated us, because we don't feel that we will ever get another chance. We allow ourselves to be dragged through the dirt and mud by these thoughts and things as our hands on burn in fire until the rope breaks. When all of this is unnecessary punishment to ourselves as we get another chance, just keep breathing.
We always get another chance, as long as we breathe, and maybe these chances come in different forms, we just don't see them that way. We get opportunities that we don't see as new chances because we are too afraid to trust the process. We are too afraid to trust the possibilities. We are more afraid to trust ourselves. We cannot say that we trust God, if we don't trust ourselves because God works hand in hand with us. If God dwells inside of each and every one of us then every time we move, react, speak, and think, we are acting as a representation of God's, wholeness, and Divineness. We are fragmented pieces of God that makes up parts of this massive Infinite system, but we forget this. We have been given the gift to re-member. We get a chance to re-member, we get a chance to change what we don't like, and we have a choice to accept what we are unable to change by moving forward mentally and physically.
You may not get another chance with people, but you always get another chance with God.
You can give another chance to someone as you would want to have another chance give to you. Treat others offenses as kindly as you would treat your own. I consider my faults when I am showing compassion to another. I forgive even if the person isn’t remorseful. I haven’t always been this way, but I am glad that I made it to this point.
You can apologize to people that you hurt and offend, and your apology can be accepted. And that is a great thing when that happens, we should be most grateful. However sometimes that apology is not accepted. Sometimes we have crossed a forbidden boundary, maybe you have done the same thing too many times and you have used up all of your chances with them, or maybe the person is going through a transformation where they are no longer vibrating on the same frequency level as you, then you won't receive another chance. This is the thing that you cannot change and need the peace to accept that you are unable to change this.
This person is no longer a part of your path, and that is okay. Whatever the relationship was necessary for is now complete, you have been given your spiritual lesson. Now it's time to reflect on what you learned from it, and move forward with that knowledge. The Universe will make room for anew.
As we let go of the things that no longer serve us, we make room for what has been waiting for us all along.
When we begin to heal, we begin to help others heal. The Universe is waiting on you. Everything that you want has always been here, it's just waiting for you. Once you remove the stain from your mind about the unpleasant experience, no longer immersing yourself in the painful memories of it, you open a floodgate for all the goodness that you have been desiring. You get another chance. You may not get another chance with the person who cut you out of their lives, who left you, who no longer wants you in their life, but you always get another chance with God.
Every time we open our eyes from sleeping, there is another chance. It's the greatest gift, the breath of life. Each time you have a chance to walk, talk, eat, work, and enjoy your life, you are doing so off the chances that you have been given. Every time you've been sick, and you got better, you were given another chance. Even when you overspent in your finances, you got another chance. When you lost your job, you got another job, and therefore another chance. If your credit went bad, you still got another chance. If you lost your home or your car, you got another chance. You get chance after chance to make more money.
All we really want is another chance and we get that.
We worry about things that may or may not happen. We worry about things and situations that we have 0 control over, keeping them constantly in our space in our mind. We worry as if we don't get another chance. This was me at one point of time. I acted as if I wouldn’t get another chance, holding onto things, especially the past. I made my situation worse in doing this, and it came to a point where I had to break the painful cycle that I was inflicting on myself.
If things go sour for us, we still get another chance. It will be a different chance, but all in the same, stemming from what we thought would be the end. If worrying brought about solutions, no one would have anxiety, depression, and addictions. We worry as if what we're fearing through this obsessive worrying will be the end all of everything. But great news is here for you, there is no ending, only a endless cycle of continuing.
You are always coming and going, it never ends. Think about it, you come, you go, that is a Law of the Universe.
We are Infinite Ones.
Even after we leave this plane, we go into another chance. The soul never dies, life is never-ending.
We get another chance,
all we have to do is,
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It was sent to distract you...
It's been a couple of weeks since I have talked to you, I have been training for a new position, and it has been a challenge. I am always into some new things, however with no excuse, I want to bring my whole self when I write these blogs. I love to learn, and the more I know, the more I can pass on. I am grateful that you are hanging in here with me, you are my special friends. Thank you for listening to my heart through my words. Thank you for leaving comments and for your feedback.
We are in the midst of preparing for our new year to come, and while we reflect on what we are doing for the next year, we are all ready to make some drastic changes in our lives. We are tired of seeing the same ole same ole happening in our lives, so we are all compelled to do something different. Every person that I've talked to are talking about the changes that they are making coming for the new year. And these are different changes, not like the usual get in shape, eat healthier, get to a particular weight, cutting toxic people, none of that stuff. These changes are more self-reflective of one's emotional deep inner being. People are ready to grow up, to grow up in mind, in spirit, in their careers, relationships, finances, and walk in their purpose. People are truly working on their inner being and being the better person for themselves.
Today it is on my heart to talk to you about distractions. Distractions can be well disguised, especially if you are on top of your game, walking the Divine path, and most of all minding your business. Distractions come in all forms, they from within, and from all around us. Subconsciously they are used to procrastinate in getting done what we need to get done. Our procrastination in doing what we need to do, is telling the Universe that we don't feel like we deserve better. It's like saying, I am not enough for this. Procrastination is used for our distractions. When we know that there is something that we need to do, and we spend our time watching tv instead, scrolling on social media, talking on the phone, or whatever, we are becoming more distracted from what we need to do to move to the next level in our lives.
We only get so much time within a day to get our duties done. We have to make time for sleep within the 24 hours, but we still can get a great deal done within that time if we utilize our time wisely. Sometimes you don't have time for the phone call catching up with your friend for casual conversations, and about what's been going on. If it's not an emergency, you may have to set up a time to call them once you have finished your work, or another day. When you have a full-time job and you are working to accomplish goals for yourself, you have to make the time, even when you don't feel like it. You must do it even when you don't feel like it because it's how you get better at whatever it is that you're doing. I want to master everything that I do, so I do them consistently. My rule is no more than 2 days, don't miss more than 2 days of doing anything that is a part of your advancement and growth.
Once we are focused on a distraction, we get lost from our purpose.
We even distract ourselves so that we remain in relationships or friendships that we need to dissolve. We subconsciously create scenarios that will block us from breaking cycles. The scenarios that we create for ourselves makes an excuse for why we can't do what we said we were going to do. See the brain likes familiar, so we are going to go back to the familiar every time, unless we break the cycle, and train ourselves to do the unfamiliar. We will do things with the person that's enjoyable for us to distract ourselves from the inevitable. We know that we need to break ties with this person, yet we allow them to distract us so that we don't keep our head strong, and make the decision to break away. We can be distracted by what they do for us, what they buy for us, and where they take us. We allow ourselves to be distracted to easily. When disappointment comes, we realize that we have stayed distracted for so long that we end up angry with ourselves for not paying attention to what was coming. But we need this wake up call, then we get to wake up to true change within. We become aware through pain.
The cream of all distractions are the ones that come through other people with things that triggers us. It would be good to pay close attention to these types of distractions because they show us things that we need to work on within ourselves. If we are in a good mood and relaxed frame of mind and someone comes along and tell us something unpleasant that was said about us, maybe even a lie of some sorts, this would knock us straight out of alignment with ourselves if we are not rooted. Our ego would immediately step in for defense action, and now we are focused on something that is irrelevant to our Divine purpose. We become angry and we are ready to react. If we are fooled by this kind of distraction, we know that we need to do the inner work to get to a place of peace and not be moved so easily. I know what you're thinking, someone talking bad about us, well that would upset anyone, and yes it would hurt just about anyone. But as you move to a place of peace, those kinds of things move away from you, and when they come close, they never touch you. You become truly unbothered.
The question is, "why are they coming to you with this information?" What signals are you giving off into the collective to say that it's okay for this kind of energy to come into your space? What kinds of conversations are you having? What is drawing this type of energy close to you? I am in no shape or form blaming you for being the target of slander, I am asking, "why would someone come to you to tell you such hurtful things?" I am asking, "if it triggers you, then why?" If this distractions you, shifting your mood from high to low, lowering it in any kind of way, why? Why is it affecting you when you can't control the actions of another person? Do you not know who you are? Do you allow the insignificant opinions of others dictate how you are going to feel? Is what they think that important? Who is in control?
If someone says something to you to discourage you, to hurt your feelings, to upset you, is that not a distraction to place your mind on something that has nothing to do with you? If someone says something to you and it emotionally triggers you, then there is some inner work for you to do. This is for all, we all face this. I get triggered by the words from other people at times, especially the people who are closest to me because they really know me, and they know my heart. I have to catch myself and do a whole rewind so that I won't allow myself to get caught up in their opinion. My opinion about me matters most. I talk to myself all day long, this is the voice that matters, it is the voice that is creating my life.
Don't be distracted by someone who tries to remind you of what you used to do, and who you used to be. It's best to limit or eliminate your time with people who try to take subtle jabs at you or out right says things to you to hurt you, disregard you, and to take you back to a place that you have worked so hard to get away from. These people have been set up to distract you from your greater purposes. Will you past the test?
When we are maintaining any kind of low mood of sadness, anger, frustration, victim, we are truly sitting at the pinnacle of a major distraction. More than likely we are feeling down about something that we cannot change, something that has already happened, and we are allowing ourselves to think the thoughts that fuel the low mood. In a lowered state, we are distracting ourselves from what we know, what we need to do to protect ourselves, to preserve our lives, and that is healing. We need to heal and move through it, and we find everything to use for a distraction to avoid this healing process. Drugs, alcohol, food, stress, busyness, sex, overindulging, drama, conflict, excess television, excess social media, and the list goes on for distractions. There are so many things that we can distract ourselves with that it is hard to see when we're truly in the middle of a major distraction.
It is so easy to fall into a slump, into hopelessness, and stay there and be distracted by everything that's down there. We forget in distraction that the Universe is always working for us and never against us. We forget that everything happens for a reason, a reason to learn, a reason to experience. In distracted states we put aside our power, and that power seems to diminish inside of us, pushing us further and further away from what we want to do, be, and have. During distraction we get out of alignment with who we truly are inside. We are focused on something that is growing whether we want it to grow or not. We become tuned into something, allowing it to occupy our mind and our time, when we could be placing this valuable time and energy to get us closer to our goals.
When we begin to lose faith and question our abilities, we become distracted, and we begin to procrastinate, but that thing is calling on us in the back of our mind. We are unable to let it go, it won't stop tugging at us, and still we fight to stay in the distraction. Arguments are a major distraction. You are sure to miss something good while you're giving attention to an argument. Celebrity gossip is a distraction, any kind of gossip is a distraction, because it has nothing to do with you. Conflicts are distractions and they bring you out of alignment with who you are. Conflicts mess with your headspace, then you become focused on what happened, what is going on with an unpleasant situation, what they said, what they think, instead of placing your focus on what you truly want.
It is up to us to block out distractions. When someone says something that we don't like we don't have to accept it as fact, or take it personally in any way, because what people say is more about them and really has nothing to do with you. We speak from the inside, all from our perception, and our perception is not always right. We don't have to fall out of alignment with our purpose through distractions, the question is how much do you want it? The question is, are you tired of it? The bigger question is, what are you going to do about it?
Don't be fooled, it was sent to distract you.
To throw you off of what you were supposed to be doing,
to drudge up old painful familiarities that you worked hard to beat.
Remember why you came.
Remember who you came to be.
I hope you remember to relax and enjoy this ride, we get off at some point. I truly appreciate you for supporting this blog and hanging tough with me! Endless love to you all! I am super elated for all my new subscribers! Thank you for being a part of this blog!
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"What Does Faith See in You?"
I was talking to an elder lady and I said, "I was worried," she cut me off quickly and said, "No baby we don't worry, we have faith." That moment changed my life forever...
Everything is energy and energy is true.
You cannot lie about it,
you cannot hide it,
because energy knows you.
I came up with this topic awhile back and I felt like today was most appropriate for writing about it. You can't see faith, but faith can surely see you. Faith sees you not having faith and it sees when you do. The crazy part about faith is that it will still come through with your manifestations even when you didn't have faith in faith. Faith knows if you have faith. Faith can see when your faith is weak.
I concentrate on faith because it is something that we have to practice like everything else in order to master it. Master your faith... hmmm. Have you mastered your faith?
I set my intentions to be aware of where my faith is. Is my faith soaring high, flying with the birds, going wherever I want to go? Or is my faith low and stuck in the mud, worried about where I might go? I aim to be aware of the strength of my faith. And as thoughts come through my mind, I recognized that some of the thoughts that try and squeeze through are based on fear instead of faith. Being aware is priceless because you catch toxic thoughts and feelings that try and control you. You know when you are stepping out of alignment with your true nature and that is a nature of love, especially love for one’s self. When thoughts of fear and lack try to infiltrate my mind, I say, "no, this is a trick, I am not falling for it." I begin self-talking and repeating uplifting affirmations. These low thoughts try to attack you when you're going to bed at night, just as you are falling asleep. I never want to waste the theta period that we have access to right before going to sleep, so if there are some doubtful and egotistical thoughts coming to me at that time, I kick them out and go straight into my visualizations of what I want to be and do.
"We think in secret and it comes to pass, our environment is but our a looking glass." James Allen, As a Man Thinketh.
It is said in scriptures that we only need the faith of a tiny mustard seed to move mountains in our life. Faith pays us according to our faith. When we have faith, faith makes the journey easier for us too. It takes too much energy to be afraid. It takes an enormous amount of energy to worry. The very thing that we place our attention on, grows, and we get more of it. If we place our attention on what we lack, we are sure to create more lack. When we place our faith in what we don't want, we are sure to receive more of what we don't want. We may not realize that it’s what we're doing, but we are creating our worlds with every single thought and feeling, nothing gets by.
When we are afraid, more things come to us to be afraid about. We start seeing more things showing up in our experiences that scare us. We start going down a scary path. And then we have these scary stories to tell to people, and the person is like, "wow, how'd that happen to you?"
If we feel that it won't happen for us, then it won't happen for us. If we don't take a step forward, take chances, we will remain in the same place. When we are afraid to move forward, stepping out on faith, faith can see that. Faith says, "well I know you're scared, so you're not ready for what the Universe has for you." Faith can see when you want it bad enough to believe it, even though you can't see it.
I would bet that every time you lie down to go to sleep at night, you have faith that you will wake up in the morning. And not only do you have the faith that you will wake up in the morning, but you have faith that other people that you know and love will wake up too. That's not something that someone has to convince you of. You believe that you will wake up because you speak in terms of tomorrow, you worry about what is going to happen in the future, because you have faith that you will be here to see it.
We have faith in things that we do repetitively. We even have faith in things that we could really have less faith in, like our jobs. We can use that faith somewhere else. Whenever we worry about something going wrong or about us not having enough, we are faithing backwards. We are using this golden Divine tool, and misusing it. I have done it before, I had faith that things were going to go down in my life and they did. I gave faith to worrying about what was going to happen to me and the most unfortunate things began to happen to me. I was using faith the wrong way. Oh and I was strong in my faith about what was going to go wrong, and about what I would lose, what would happen to me.
I told myself that if I could use faith upside down, then I could use faith right side up. Faith wants us to use it. Faith wants us to believe in it. Faith is rooting for us, wanting us to believe in faith, in our manifestations. Faith will wait on us, to believe in ourselves. Faith will show us signs that it is there for us, riding with us. The more faith we have, the stronger we become. Faith shows us that when we believe, things just begin to fall into place in our lives. Faith wants us to know that it has us covered. Faith wants us to realize that it was sent by God for us, to aid us, and assist us in our journey.
Because what can you do without faith? You may not have faith in the right things, but you still have faith in something. Faith knows what you're facing and faith still wants you to have faith. Faith wants you to have faith in you. Faith wants you to have faith in the process. Faith will show up and show you every time. You can depend on faith if you use it. I have a simple use for faith that everything is going to work out for me. I believe that and I feel it with my entire being. It doesn't matter what you tell me, what an expert says, what a doctor says, I believe in faith. I don't care if my life looks to be falling apart, I have faith that everything works out for the good of them. I am one of the good of them. I know my heart, and many things can be said about me, but I will never believe that I don't have a good heart. I know my intentions and they are ALWAYS good.
I believe in the laws on the Universe. I believe that if you do something dirty to someone, it will come back to you triple fold. I have witnessed this happen in my life from people who have done deceitful things to me, and I did nothing. I let go and I let God handle it. I have faith in God. I have faith that God protects me, and has my back. I have faith that God can see when someone is trying to do something to bring harm into my life, and I have faith that God will take care of them. I don't have to quickly react or even respond, because I have a STRONG faith that God will handle all the responses for me. Everything comes full circle.
You will be moving along in life, not focused on what happened, you will have cut your energetic cords from it, and then here comes their karma. You did nothing, you just had faith that the Universe would take care of you. As our children come and go, we must have faith that they will be safe and protected. If we are constantly worrying that something unfortunate is going to happen to them, we are strongly manifesting it to happen. When we have faith that they are under Divine protection, we don't worry.
Worrying has got to be the worst habit that one could ever develop.
It takes practice to stop worrying, and start using faith. That is what faith is here for, to see if we believe in the Divine plan. I have come out of some sticky situations merely on using my faith. My faith got stronger as I could see that it worked. A turn of events can happen in the most dooming looking situations when we have faith. Even if the thing that you wanted to work out didn't go your way, let things play out, and wait, something better will come to you. It is impossible to please God without faith. For he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that the is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him." Hebrews 11:6.
Once you make the decision that you are going to act in faith, the Universe comes together with you to make magical things happen. Do you believe in you? Do you believe that you will be with the love of your life? Do you feel like you deserve a healthy loving relationship? Do you feel like you deserve to be wealthy? Do you feel like you deserve to be healthy? I ask myself these things, and I deeply listen to my soul to see if I really feel like I deserve all the wonderful things that this life experience has to offer me. What do I settle for? Whatever I settle for must be what I feel like I deserve. Do I settle for lowly things because I feel like I don't deserve higher? Do I settle for good enough because I don't feel like I deserve what I truly want?
All of these questions I write out and then answer them, making it more challenging because I ask myself why do I feel like I deserve these things. Whenever you do that, you are forced to say the most beautifulest things about yourself. You deserve the best that life has to give because it is your Divine birthright. You didn't come here for struggle and strife. You didn't come here to take less than what you deserve. You came here to thrive and enjoy an adventurous magical time. You came here to enjoy your life.
Faith can see what you're doing. I know that we cannot see faith, and that is the whole purpose of it. Can we let go and believe that the Universe is going to deliver for us? My grandmother used to have us sing a song at church as we stepped in unison, "One step, and he will do the rest, if I make, one step, I know that he will do the rest." My cousin Cookie led the vocals on that song. I always enjoyed that song, because it strengthened my faith every time I sung it. I felt it in my spirit that all I had to do was have the faith to take one step forward, and God would do the rest. God was testing my faith, do I really believe what I say I believe?
You never know how much faith you're truly capable of having, until you're faced with using it.
What does faith see when faith sees you?
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"You May Not Be Ready For Change..."
It's great to be here writing to you, and I truly mean what I am saying. I have been out of commission for awhile now, so everything feels brand new to me. I suddenly became ill on the 24th of November, and it brought me to an uncomfortable place in my mind and body. I have experienced a major shift in my vibrational frequency, and I know that I can never return to where I was before. Nothing is the same right now and it will never be the same again. I am fine with change, I have experienced a great deal of changes throughout my lifetime. I have been thinking about writing to you every day. I have been thinking about doing my YouTube videos, and I wondered where I would begin. I realized that I must take a page out of my own book, and begin again and again if I have to, beginning at the end. I had to understand that I must be gentle with myself first, I was forced into taking it easy.
I went back and forth for the past few days inside, deciding what I would write about. Like I said I have been shifted inside, so it feels like I am starting with a clean slate. I am adjusting to my new. You may not be ready for change, but change has always been ready for you.
You know how you'll talk about things that you want to change in your life, but nothing changes. What you plan on doing when this happens, or when that happens, and then all of a sudden, you are thrusted into change. You are pushed into a change where you didn't have a choice, but to change. This has happened to me many times before, and I never saw it coming when it did. The thing about change is, it drops subtle warnings that it's coming, then it comes in full force. Like before I became ill, I felt pain in my chest, I ignored it, and continued on, because I didn't think much of it. I had been saying that I was going to go on a fast, and then pick up with a raw fruit fast after 72 hours of water and herb fasting. Yea yea, I talked and talked about doing this, I was putting it off until after the holiday.
I at least ordered all of the herbs that I need for this fast that I was talking about doing. When I went to the kidney doctor, she wanted to run some tests on me, but still she said that she wouldn't know how to treat me if there were some issues there since there are only 3 medicines to treat people who have had kidney transplants with, and I didn't respond well to any of them. I stayed up all night for 3 nights in a row, researching what I would need. I consulted with higher powers to steer me in the right direction. I said to God, "where you lead me, I will follow."
I knew what I was saying could lead me to an uncomfortable place, and still I meant it, and I still do.
When I was stricken with sickness, my mind was in a space between nothingness. Nothing mattered anymore. All that I had promised for myself, what I aspire to be, to do, none of it mattered. None of the conversations that I had previously mattered. Nothing that anyone had done to me mattered. Nothing that I had done, mattered. The pain was so excruciating that I could think of nothing else. I wasn't visualizing anything or affirming anything, I was in a space of blankness. I was there in a space of nothing, not focused on anything, just peace, just wanting to escape this awful pain.
While I was writing this blog to you, the site that I am using changed the page while I was typing. I literally lost everything that I said to you after the last sentence of the last paragraph. I have to admit that it was a bit discouraging, this has happened to me once before, but it was months ago. I shall continue on...
There is a subtle voice inside of us that tells us what we need to do to make our lives better. This voice is a Divine message and we ignore it. This voice brings us to our Divine purpose and we shun it. The message may not be loud in voice, but it is consistent. It consistently shows up as examples in our lives to tell us that it is time to change our direction. It shows itself in ways that upsets us, that pulls us out of alignment with our true nature, and we think that we can get around what we are being told to do. It tells us that it is time to move on and we stick around to see what happens if we don't. We wait until everything happens in full force and then we cry out why?
The signs are always before us. Unfortunate occurrences happen and still we try to get around the change that we know is necessary for our spiritual and physical growth. Change is always waiting on us, as we drag around slowly, thinking that we can avoid what must be done. We forget who's in control. Once change presents itself in full force, we are reminded of who is truly in control. We try to control and manipulate everything to do what we want to do before changing. When God is telling us to change now, before we are forced into change. We say we trust God, we have faith, but we trust what we see before us, even though we know deep down inside that it is subject to change, and to change drastically.
God says move, we say, "okay I need time."
God says change it now, we say, "okay I'm coming."
God says, I said change, and we say, "I will."
We say that we are going to change, but we don't until we are forced to change. We wait until the person that we need to leave alone, abandons us and then we wake up and say that we see this change that we need to make. We wait until the job that we work completely drags us, fires us, takes everything away from us, and then we say, "I can't believe this has happened to me." We continue to let things that have no productive place in our lives, drain us and shape us, before we change.
We consider changing, we think about about, and how it would be if we did change, and then we sit still, making no changes. We stay in that toxic relationship, hoping that we will get something better to come along, or that the relationship will magically change itself, all to avoid making the change that we know we need to make for our sanity. We know that we are not happy in our predicament, yet we still hold off from our own happiness, because we know that happiness will require us to experience great change. We take chances with our health, putting it at the end of the line, until we are stuck in bed unable to move.
The voice that was once subtle and low, has grown loud and forceful, and then it dies out. It has delivered its Divine message to us again and again. We have ignored it, postponed it, and denied it, and now it is here.
This is why when things that seem awful happens in our lives, they are really blessings in disguise. We denied ourselves the necessary changes and now we are faced to live with the no choice changes. We know that we need to change our attitude and how we have been responding to things, the things that we have been participating in, and we put it off. Then God comes and touches our soul, and we are shifted into the position where God has been telling us to go all along.
Something happened to me that pulled the life out of me
I don't know how to get back
something has come for me
There is nowhere for me to return to just wait for the
reverse of the pendulum swing.
When you are pushed into change know that there has been a special calling on your life. You are being called forward to make a move, and the time is now. We must stop underestimating the power of God and truly trust in the change. Once we have learned the lesson, it is time to move on from it, for there is a new lesson that awaits us.
Love is waiting for you, prosperity is waiting on you, great health is waiting for you, that great fulfilling relationship is waiting on you, whatever you are holding in your heart is waiting on you. It's waiting on you to come on. It's always been waiting for you, and you have been putting it off. If God has to knock you off your feet to stand you on your path, it will happen.
You may not be ready for change, but change is always ready for you to come on...
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"Those Doors are Locked for a Reason"
I am learning that what's for me will be, and the Universe will move boulders if necessary for it to be. Have you ever tried to force something that wasn't working out for you? The more you tried to make a way for it to happen, doors continued to be closed in your face. Every solution you tried to use for it was a no go and it became frustrating, why? You thought to yourself, "I'm trying,' right? You even wanted to come to tears because you knew that you wanted a significant change and you were doing the absolute best that you could. You tried every avenue, you even created some possible solutions, asked for help, but no one was in a position to help you, and nothing worked.
Doors seemed to be locked.
Some of those doors seem to be boarded up.
I know you tried hard for it, you did the work, you kept the faith, and you believed that it was for you.
If this hasn't been me trying to force it to fix it. Don't be me, don't try to force it to fix it. Once you start saying that you're trying, you're playing it pretty close to being the "victim." Once you start saying "I'm trying," there is some doubt in you of it happening. Whenever I am fixing my mouth to say that I am trying, then I know that I am meeting with resistance, maybe even some self-pity. If it doesn't flow in the direction of synchronicity, I can assure you that it's not the path for you.
I tell God that I am grateful that I am being kept on my Divine path. I tell God that I am thankful for guidance, and that I will follow my purpose of what I am called here to do. I tell God that I am grateful for the road blocks because they let me know what's for me and what's not for me. I thank God for all situations, even the ones that I get frustrated about, because they are there for a reason, for a lesson. I need to be obedient to the Divine signs. They are in place to protect me. In times where I ignored the Divine signs, I learned some tough Divine lessons.
We can get ugly angry inside when things aren't turning out like we wanted them to. It's the inner child in us that sticks out when we don't get our way and starts throwing a tantrum. We begin to question everything and ask why me? Why can't I? We become resistant to whatever we're trying to reach because of our attitude towards it. Our attitude can repel whatever we want away from us when we feel like it's hard to come to us.
I have experienced many bolted doors that I tried beating in. I thought that I was facing my adversities and going around them if I had to. I felt that I would be giving up if I didn't try various options. I was doing these things for other reasons, sometimes not my reasons, sometimes for material reasons. No matter how hard it seems we have to follow what's in our dreams. I have made career choices that wasn't in line with my true purpose. Just because I am good at it, doesn't mean that it's what God wants me to do. I had to come to inner stand that I asked God to place me in direct path to my purpose, so anything that doesn't align with that is going to show me some resistance. It's going to turn me around. The resistance is the guide to let us know what's not for us. The resistance is the God compass telling us which way to go.
Anyone who loves you, you don't have to force them or create ways for them to love you. They just did and it came naturally for them. All we have to do is just be. That's it. We don't have to push, shove, and fight for what's ours, it will flow to us naturally. The right people will show up to make your purpose more successful. The opportunities will chase you down when you do what God told you to do. Everything comes to you when you release all blame, resentment, and concern of how other people see you. They will see you how you see you. What is for you, will always be for you.
As long as we're going against the grain, we will bring ourselves pain.
The hardest thing to do is nothing. To stand still and let the Universe take course is a skill. We are so used to fixing things, intervening, and trying to control things that we lose sight of our true purpose. What's even harder is not doing something when we feel like we should be doing something. It its our ego that tells us we aren't doing enough, that more is required of us. You are doing the best that you can do a this present moment. But there is a voice that will tell you that you need to do more. There is a voice that will have you criticizing what you do and have done, this is not your true voice, this is ego. Your Divine voice will say, "you have done enough, you are enough, you did good enough," it will always be enough. It wants you to be gentle with you.
You have tried to do something before and was met with resistance. It seemed like the more you did, the harder it became to do. It seemed like the obstacles just piled on top of each other or came at the time when you were attempting to make your moves. This is not the same thing as having resilience in overcoming adversities for your goals and your purpose. We must persevere in what we want to achieve. We won't get to our purpose if we give up because of obstacles, we will always be faced with them. The close doors that I am speaking of are the ones where you can feel the BIG NO in your gut on the most subtle level. It's when you think that you're doing what's right, and it all sounds good, but it's not lining up for you. There seems to be obstacles beyond your control. It seems like something is pushing you, and you are pushing back. You are pushing the Universe back. This means that it can't work for you, because you're working against it, and then telling yourself that life isn't being fair to you.
I have been faced with situations that I could do nothing about but ride them out. When I surrendered and became still, everything lined up with my purpose started to come to me. I didn't have to go to it. I sat still and acknowledged that God was in control. I released my need to control. I said, "okay, I will face what I have to because I know that God is leading me." We get so many things done that we forget that God is in control. We forget that we came here to live out our purpose and do Divine works. God holds us accountable, so everything that we think we want doesn't want us, but it wants to protect us.
The Universe wants us to win, and to know that we won.
We gotta stop beating down doors that's not be answered.
God will give you the keys to the right door, your door, and you will walk right in.
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“Bless Everything As it is"
Yes we all want certain things to be better in our lives, but everything gets better with love. Everything you bless gets better. Instead of complaining about it, them, whatever it is, bless it. Give it your blessing and watch it grow.
Putting your blessings on people, things, and situations, make them better. It is better to bless everything in your life than it is to create a resentment for it. Whatever we shower with love, it sprouts, grows, and thrives. Whatever we criticize and complain over it proves to be true and right. It gives us the energy that we give it, whatever it is. If we bless situations that we want to see change, you better know that they are going to change. The Universe is always working for you and never against you.
For instance there is a situation that is known for bringing out the complaints within me, and I have caught on to this. So instead of me complaining whenever I am presented with the situation, I bless it and thank God for it. I realize that it is a lesson for me to learn in the most unpleasant situations. Before I began my barrage of complaints, going off out of alignment with my higher self, I stop and say, "this is a trick, I bless this situation, I bless this person, I am thankful for them.
Even when dealing with a person who has been difficult to deal with, start sending out into the Universe blessings about this person, and blessing words and watch how the relationship changes. You will begin to see the good in them. You have to send blessings towards difficult relationships because that is when you are learning something priceless. God is strengthening you to not fall out of your love nature through simple frustrations, to not allow anyone to drag you out of alignment with who you are.
Every situation, circumstance, and person in our lives, is there to teach us something that we need to know. We want to get rid of the negativity, but the negativity is teaching us something about ourselves and something about others. What bothers you the most about them? What bothers you the most about the situation? These answers are the key to your healing within.
There are situations that we absolutely despise having to deal with but the question is, "what is this situation trying to teach me?" Is it trying to teach me to change and am I resisting? Notice where your resistance is, that is the direction to your path. Your resistance shows you where you need to go. Always take the path of least resistance, this is where your purpose lives. And once you consciously start living from and in your purpose, you become unshakable, unmovable, and unstoppable.
We are so quick to want to get rid of things that bring us unpleasantness, without getting the lesson from it first, and this causes us to repeat the situation in a different form, with it being the same thing. Bless the situation, no matter how frustrating it is. Bless the situation, even if it hurts you because there is a lesson for you there, and you will learn exactly what it is when you begin to bless it. When you bless your situations and people in your life, you are telling God that you trust the Universe and where it leads you. When you bless the unknown and trust that God is leading your path, you cannot go wrong.
We worry about making the right choices. We worry about being right. There is no right or wrong way, all of the ways will get you there. God is calling you, are you listening?
Totally shift your consciousness to blessing everything. It is showing gratitude in the highest form to bless everything in your life. You are showing trust to the Universe in your path. You are going the right way. Just you reading this blog is a wink from the Universe that you are in tune with yourself and your Divine path. You are looking to raise your vibrational frequency and God is guiding you to people. situations, and things to assist you in doing so.
Blessing everything is showing gratitude and what you show gratitude for, what you feel gratitude for grows. If you are grateful for love, you will receive more love. If you are grateful for health, you will receive more health. Whatever your health state is, bless it. Bless every organ in your body, God gave them to you as a gift. They are meant to work for you not against you. Bless the people in your life, even the ones that you have difficulties with. Bless the people who support you. Bless your job, even if you don't like it. Bless your friends, and your relationships will get better. Bless the food that you eat, speak life over everything. Bless the car you have to drive. Bless the person that gives you a ride. Bless every bill you pay. Instead of complaining about your bills, bless them when you pay them. Bless the fact that you are able to pay them. Bless the phone that you have to use. Bless the conversations that you have.
Bless your body. Bless your mind. Bless your kind spirit. Just speak out the blessings towards it. Bless having a place to live. Bless the place that you live in. Bless your children, your loved one. Bless the bed that you sleep in, bless your sleep. Bless all of your relationships. Bless your ability to see and speak. Bless your digestive system. Focus always on what you have, ignore what you don't. Starve thoughts of lack and limitations.
Bless the water that you have to drink. Bless the water before you drink it. Your body is made up of over 70% water and your brain and heart is made up of over 70% of water, your muscles and kidneys are almost 80% water, your skin is 64% water, and even your bones are made up of water 30%. So the water that you are putting into your body, it needs, and it needs to be blessed. You are pretty much water. The Earth's surface is made up of 80% water. You are one with the Earth, one with the Universe. You are water. Bless the waters in your body. Bless the waters of your mind. Dr. Emoto has a book on water, "Hidden Messages in Water," and in this book, he demonstrates how the waters in your body are affected by your thought, words, moods, and feelings. We change the waters in our bodies by how we feel.
I am blessing you now for reading this. I am blessing you for going on this journey with me. I am blessing you for supporting my blog and my YouTube. I am blessing you for being full of love. I am blessing you and your household for prosperity, success, and love. I am blessing you with health and faith. I am blessing you with your heart's desires.
Say this : I deserve ____________ and I now accept it.
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"Awareness Brings Clarity"
If we remain in a state of awareness we will begin to understand ourselves and more about the world around us. Whenever we are operating in a state of awareness, we begin to understand that we can use more awareness. Awareness is underestimated when it is a priceless commodity for the human experience. There are so many things that we are faced with throughout our days, we never know what we will encounter. But I will tell you that being aware makes it easier when we are presented with unexpected adversities, changes, and surprises.
My goal everyday is to become more aware of my inner being, of my transactions throughout the entire day, and to be totally present within. I ask myself if I am being thoughtful whenever I am making decisions. At times I am aware and it feels like a double edged sword because I know that my decisions will affect the way someone else feels, but I still have to make tough decisions. I have to do what feels best for me. I must take care of my mental state and my inner being.
Sometimes I don't think that we give credit to the importance of knowing our inner state. It is in knowing our inner state that will keep us away from things that don't serve our highest good. When we are aware of what we're thinking and how we feel, then we will know what we need to tend to within ourselves. Sometimes life gets heavy for us, and things don't turn out the way we imagined. It is better for us to be aware of how we feel about a situation, then just floating through it like we're sitting in a cloud. It is ideal for us to be aware of what's best for us, in this way we will gravitate towards our whys.
We walk blindly enough throughout this life not knowing what is going to happen for us from day to day. We don't know what's going to happen within a day, we just have faith and believe that whatever it is, we will be alright. If we are at least aware of what we are thinking and feeling we can adjust our inner state to where we want to be. We know that we have a choice and do not have to remain in a vibration that doesn't feel good to us. We can adjust our inner being when we are aware, we can go high when we need to go higher to get to the place that we want to draw in the experiences that we want out of life.
When we are aware of what we're thinking and feeling, we will be aware in what we are doing. We will know what feels right for us to do and what makes us feel the slightest resistance in doing. We will consider the words that we speak to someone else, as well as the words that we speak to ourselves. We will think about how the other person may feel about our words and conversations with them. We will care for ourselves and set boundaries for ourselves, even if it upsets others when we do.
I aspire to be more aware every day. If I can be more aware than I was the day before, that is an accomplishment for me. I strive to be conscious in all my ways. I consciously think, speak, and act in all my dealings. I know when my vibration is low, I know when my vibration is high. I know when something is bothering me and I need to isolate to fix it, instead of going around people in a low vibrational way rubbing them the wrong way. If I am aware, I know what I am doing,
In my presence I ensure that I am remaining in the present moment. When I catch myself leaving the present moment to reference anything it better be to help and talk about how I learned from the experience. Whenever I feel myself outside of the present moment, talking about it, thinking about it, I reel myself back in. If I am with my husband, and I start talking about the past, and what I could have done, he will remind me of the present moment, and to find gratitude in it. I have people to hold me accountable for the same things that I preach to them.
I know that I don't have power to change what has already happen, but I do have the power to make the future better. Being aware is a start to creating a better now. Being present in the now keeps me conscious to what I am thinking about. Because truly we think way too much, we overthink, and we hold on too tight. We hold onto trivial things, and we have convinced ourselves that we can't control how our thoughts come at us. We will say that all of these thoughts are coming to us at once, and we can't control them or stop them. It all goes back to how stubborn we are in stopping ourselves from doing something that we know is damaging us, that is setting the tone for more unpleasant events to happen. We can say, "I choose to think higher thoughts." We tell our minds what to do. We tell our bodies what to do. This is your power, embrace it, and use it.
There was a time when I didn't believe that I could control my thoughts so I never did.
Meditation is vital to our life's path and progress. Whenever we sit down in meditation, we see ourselves in our mind's eye for what we are thinking right now. We get a snapshot of how we're thinking and what we've been thinking. Meditation brings us to a focus in knowing that we need to know where our mind is at all times. It was in meditation is where I found my mind. I found my true mind, not the fears, not the regret, not the pain, but I found my real mind. I had to lose my mind in order to find it. I had to sit down in silence with it so that I could hear it. I find clarity through the awareness that I found in meditation. Meditation makes you aware of what you're doing and what to do. You get to see things from all sides. You get to see where you could have been wrong in experiences. You become alright with being misunderstood. You realize that God knows your heart so it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about you.
In awareness you become aware of what you eat, how you think, what you say, what you don't say, how you say it, and the possibilities. In awareness procrastination decreases, you know that you must do the thing that you've been saying that you were going to do. In awareness you make BIG moves, you prepare, and you execute plans. You realize how you got to the point that you are at. You take responsibility for your actions in the past, but you do not criticize yourself. You see everything as a learning lesson when you are aware.
When you are aware you know how you want to be presented and represented. You don't go on social media posting negative content. You don't get into arguments with people on social media or in real life about things that don't matter. You mind your own business. You are conscious enough to know that comparing yourself to others, steals your bliss, and takes you out of the present moment. You become aware of the energy that you bring. You are conscious of how your energy may affect another. You become aware of the feelings that you have, and you know the thoughts that you think are creating your life at the current moment. We are manifesting at all times, it may as well be for something that we want to happen.
When we are asleep, we don't know that we are asleep. We don't know that the decisions that we're making are because we are sleep to our true Divine spirit. We don't realize that we will look back on those sleep made decisions with a "what was I thinking" mind. We don't understand what's happening in our lives during the slumber. We get involved in the dealings where we have no business, dealings that will disturb our peace, we allow our peace to be moved by petty dealing, and we are driven by fears. When we are tapped on the shoulder and awakened by the Divine, we realize that we have been unconscious, unconsciously thinking and acting the entire time.
Anytime is a good time to wake up, but you know how it feels when someone tries to force you.
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"It is the most uncomfortable comfortable thing to remain the same"
Knowing we need to change.....
I was thinking about how to title this post because of it's great importance. We talk about change and changing in a cliche way, and I feel that real change is not taken seriously at times. Ask yourself this, "what is my willingness to change?" Is there something about you that you would want to change? To make better, to improve in your life?
We say that we want to change something, change our lives, we have to make uncomfortable choices. Our subconscious mind tugs at us, constantly pulling us back into the old, into a comfortable space. We know what we need to do to make things better for us, but it's more uncomfortable to make that significant change.
If we were to change little by little, with baby steps, the small changes would add up for a significant change. I did a YouTube video on what blocks us from change, why our affirmations seem to not work at times, even when we're saying them with pure emotion. It's because we haven't removed the blocks, the emotional blocks that is keeping us from making permanent progress for great change. We haven't moved past our resistance, that's why we keep returning to people, things, and situations that no longer serve us. We must work on our internal being to break the old program that we picked up as children.
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In this video, I show you one way that I remove energy blocks through EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique Tapping. In this video, I tap to remove the energy blocks that keep me from moving towards a remarkable change. I speak change every day. Our karma is in our throat, you can feel the vibrations coming from your throat whenever you talk, sing, or vocalize anything. What we speak out carries a powerful vibration. I put my hand on my throat and state, "I am willing to change." If you try this you will feel the resistance in your throat, in your words, in the vibration of your words if there is any resistance there. If you write it down, you will feel the resistance in your words, if there is some resistance there about anything at all.
It's our resistance to change that keeps us stagnant and feeling stuck. We must have a willingness inside of us to get rid of the need for whatever we're holding onto, whatever we know we need to change, the things that no longer serve our highest good and we know it too. Affirmations, meditation, prayer, EFT Tapping, and subconscious reprogramming all remove the blocks that keep us from our beneficial change. Through spiritual inner work we come to a place of willingness to release the need for whatever that thing is.
We keep the things around that we want and need or both. We have things and situations in our lives that we feel there is a need for. It brings us comfort, it soothes our traumas, and it keeps us remaining sleep to our true nature and purpose. To awaken is painful because then we realize that we remember. We remember everything that we need to heal within ourselves. We put up many resistances to keep us in a place of excuse and comfort. But when we wake up, we understand that something must be done.
We know that we need to eat healthier, but we put up a resistance by saying that we will start eating healthier by a certain date. We know that it's greater for our higher selves if we exercised, but we create distractions and detours as a reason to not exercise. We know that we need to do that thing that would make us happiest inside, but we don't see ourselves as worthy enough to have it. So subconsciously we create distractions, reasons, and circumstances to keep us from using all that we have inside to propel ourselves in the direction of it. We know that we want to start a business, but we create a block to keep us from doing so. It goes on and on, with the situations that we create to keep our resistance up. Most of these blocks were created when we were children, when we were told to dim our light, to be quiet. When we were told that it was never going to happen for us, when we were told that money was scarce, when we were told that it wasn't possible for us by family, friends, and teachers.
If you have something that you want to change, that you know you need to change, if you get a journal, a sheet of paper, and begin to write down, "I am willing to release the need for, ... whatever it is, it could be a lack of money, it could be debt, pain, anger, frustration, complaining, sadness, smoking, overeating, over drinking, you will feel the resistance inside of you as you write the words down. I can feel the resistance inside of me when I just say the words, I am willing to release the need for...and then I go down the list. I feel resistance inside of me to certain things, and I feel that comes from doubting that certain situations will change. In some of the things that I list, I feel the resistance inside of me even stronger, it lets me know what I need to work on, what needs my immediate attention.
The things that come to us easily, we already know them well, they don't require the attention and work as the things that are hard for us. Think about it, what area of your life is hard for you to overcome? What area seems to be the constant cycle of the same problems? That is the area where your lesson lies. It is the meaning to your visit here on Earth. We come here to learn lessons from previous incantations and to elevate higher spiritually from them. We settle our karmic debts and we don't live them out anymore. Our soul can never die, it will keep going forever. Tell me the last time someone's soul died, or when someone killed a soul... We are as Infinite as the Infinite One that we created us. This physical body is just an illusion shell. Our soul is Infinite.
Our willingness to change is not about criticizing ourselves, and beating ourselves up about who we are, what happened in our lives, or our choices. It is about flying above whatever's holding us down from living our true potential. Our willingness to release ourselves from whatever's keeping us down is about enjoying our lives and all the goodness that God has to offer us. We must have the willingness to release the need of whatever's hurting us. It is criticizing ourselves that brought us to the need of holding onto these escapes, these bandages. We criticize ourselves by telling ourselves that we can't do it, that's like saying we're not good enough. By feeling and acting like we're unworthy for the best life that this Universe has to offer us, we hold strong to resistance for change within us. It goes back to what we were told as children that still affects us to this day. We have to break away from the words and opinions of others who saw limitations for themselves and tried projecting the same things onto us. We must break from the scarcity mentality that we picked up when there wasn't enough for us as children. There is always enough and there will always be enough, and anyone who tries to tell you differently is projecting their fears onto you.
Because it takes great change to drastically change our lives. It takes day to day work, to change our lives. It takes conscious work and subconscious reprogramming to change our lives for the better, to break old toxic habits. Everything that we have been doing up to this point is a habit. We are used to doing what we do. Like Dr. Joe Dispenza says, we do something for so long and it becomes our personality, and our personality creates our personal reality. So if we want real change, we have to start with eradicating the old outdated beliefs and ways of our personality that no longer serves our highest good.
We have to free ourselves from the need for whatever it is. Think about what you have in your life that you don't need? I give away things that I don't need, everything except for books. ;)
I throw away things that are broken, things that no longer have use for me, I let it go. Once a thing, a person, a situation has been successful in its lesson, the Universe moves it out of our lives. Once we learn the lesson, once it serves its purpose, it creates space for a new lesson to be challenged. When we don't learn the lesson, it keeps presenting itself in different forms.
The Universe is always working for our highest good. The Universe is always working things out for us. One of my personal favorite affirmations is, "I am willing to release the need for worrying." There is no need for me to worry, it has no benefit in my life, it just creates more of what I don't desire. Here's another one, "I am willing to release the need for procrastination." Why am I procrastinating? What am I trying to avoid? Why don't I feel that I am worthy of all the goodness that the Universe has to offer?
It really all comes down to self-love. How much do we practice self-love? How much do you love yourself? How much do we love ourselves to make the changes that we know we need to make? To make the changes that will make our lives better and more enjoyable? To make the changes that will bring fulfillment to our lives? Where are your resistances? What do you resist about? What excuses or reasons do you come up with for not making a change within yourself? We must change within before we can change on the outside. Nothing happens externally without manifesting in spirit first. We bring things to our thoughts before we actually do them. We thought many angry thoughts about the person that we confronted before we confronted them. We played it out in our mind before we did it. We keep playing these old useless programs that we picked up throughout childhood, and they keep us subconsciously bound.
You didn't come here to play small. You didn't come here to struggle and suffer. You didn't come here to be poor. You didn't come here to feel unworthy. You came here to let your light shine, to enjoy your life, and to bask in love. You come to learn lessons, to elevate, and most importantly, remember who you truly are.
Infinite love to you all,
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Raquel Givens Jones
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