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"A Different Response"
In the last few days I have been tested and I noticed that I have been programmed to react in a certain way with each situation that is presented to me. I have been giving attention to my personality, how I respond, and how I present myself to others. I have been focused on having a different response, and instead of reacting. No response at all keeps away the karma, the cause and effect.
Dr. Joe Dispenza says that we are programmed to be who we are as an adult by the time we're 35. He says that by this time, we have already adopted ways of handling things, and it is set in stone until we reprogram our subconscious mind. Another one of my favorites, Bob Proctor like Dr. Dispenza states that we learn these programs as children from 0 to 7 years old when our brains are in theta wave states, and these paradigms remain until we alter them by reprogramming our subconscious mind. We all come as clean page, by the time you're an adult that page is marked all over.
Like me, I am sure that you have wanted to go back and change outcomes, a do over, to see the future before it happens. We see the future before it happens all of the time, we just don't take heed to the vision, the voice. So we live out these tests again and again until we listen. We return to the familiar, what's comfortable for us, until we reprogram our subconscious thinking mind to do something different. I have been working on the reprogramming of my subconscious mind for almost 2 years now. I have made substantial progress, but there are times when I’ve gone off track, stopping my practice, and returning back to my "old normal," ways. After I got my tail kicked, and face scrubbed in the mud, I knew that I had to start again, I learned ugly hard lessons that there is no other way. I learned quite a bit by going off track and although these experiences were disheartening, but I needed those experiences, so that I could realize how serious this healing journey is.
We are all recovering from our childhood experiences, especially early childhood ones that are engrained in our minds. Whatever kind of energies that we grew up around, we picked them up in our program. We have to shake those lower energies off, and reprogram ourselves to choose different, to be who we want to be. As children there are some things that we were taught by the people around us that wasn't the higher road to take, and we have to unlearn those habits. Some of us were raised by people who led with their ego, programmed by their ego, and guiding us with their ego. It's no surprise why we have so many narcissistic people running around hurting people, with no conscious about it. We must notice and heal our inner child.
We become accustomed to the way we react when we are presented with someone who is being confrontational with us. These interactions can throw off our entire day, and cause us to lose focus. You could be in a wonderful mood and encounter someone who takes a subliminal shot at you with hurtful words, and it could bring your energy down for the rest of the day, as the comment lies dormant in the back of your mind. You let them in, you let them get to you, so that they could take you to the place that they are vibrating at. Sometimes you may see these subliminal shots on social media, coming from family members, and people who are supposed to be your friends, and it can be hurtful, but we are not to remain in that hurtful place.
Your response is within you, and you have total control over it. We really have to put on our whole armor of God. "We have to stand guard at the front door of our minds." Jim Rohn. The mind is the battlefield, and if we can win on that battlefield, we can conquer our entire world. We have to protect our mind like it's a infant that can't protect itself. People can get into your mind, and you will be asking yourself, "what did they mean by that, are they talking about me?" We lose every time, when we lose focus on what someone else thinks. If they are talking about you, so what? Who cares? The question is, why are they even focused on you? It says more about them and their insecurities than it does about you. It doesn't matter if we don't give our attention to it. Let them say whatever they have to say, it doesn't matter anyway, and they don't know you, they only know what you allow them to see.
We have the power to not react and to walk away from low energy encounters and conversations. If the conversation isn't adding any value to your life, if it's not leading towards a fruitful resolution, then is it really a necessary conversation? It's a distraction to start talking about low energy situations that you have no control over changing. When gossip begins, that's the best time to find your nearest exit, because after the conversation you won't feel good about it. I look forward to having the conversations that I feel good about afterwards. Because when you begin to break paradigms and monitor the words that you speak, it's becomes hard for you to talk badly about people without feeling bad yourself. It becomes hard to add your opinion in on someone else's business and life without feeling like you should stay out of it. Each time, you change the subject, walk away, and don't replay it, you are changing the paradigm.
Paradigm: a typical example or pattern of something; a model.
"there is a new paradigm for public art in this country"
synonyms: model, pattern, example, standard, prototype, archetype
paradigm definition: The definition of a paradigm is a widely accepted example, belief or concept. yourdictionary.com
When something undesirable happens for us, because nothing happens to us, just for us, we don't have to respond the same way every time. We have the ability to choose a different response. Whenever we choose a different response, we create a different outcome, so that we can stop living out the same old useless cycles. These cycles aren't getting us anywhere, they aren't getting us what we want out of life, and they're definitely aren't taking us any places that we want to be. We can choose different. We have a choice.
We don't have to allow anger and disappointment to rule our lives. Whatever we let rule our lives, owns us. So if someone tests your patience early in day, and you have been upset about it for the rest of the day, that person owned your day. These days can turn into years, and all of your life, someone else can be in control of you, occupying space in your mind. If a person knows how to get to you in an aggravating way by making comments or doing things to do so, and you react in your typical angry way, they own you. It's best to keep yourself far away from these people. We have to protect our minds from these psychological attacks because we will replay these words later on, and sometimes for days. These hurtful words can pop up years later after they have been said, they become stained in our mind. We can pray, meditate, and command the subconscious mind to release these hurtful memories, but this is constant work.
It is best to build up a psychological force inside of your mind where you aren't affected by the insignificant actions and words of others. Be so focused on your purpose and path the you don't give attention to what anyone thinks about you, what they're doing, and what they're saying. Do this on purpose, heal on purpose, break toxic cycles on purpose, protect yourself on purpose, reprogram your mind on purpose, and love yourself on purpose. Everything has a purpose, do it on purpose, live life on purpose.
I talk a lot about reprogramming the mind, because you are going to program your own mind, or it will be programmed for you, but one way or the other, it will be programmed.
The people around you play a huge role in programming your mind. It never baffles me why someone who wants a change in their life continues to keep the company of people who are doing the things that they want to change. You have to get stronger before you do this. If I wanted to get married, I am not going to hang around a group of single people. If I want my financial situation to improve, I'm not going to keep the company of people who are continuously speaking of lack and complaining about how much money they don't have. I would rather be alone then to mix with people who aren't putting in the effort to evolve. I will be alone before I hang with complainers and naysayers, people who don't believe in the possible or the impossible. Everything is energy, and the people that we hang with, is solely because of energies. And when energies don't line up, disdain, resentment, arguments, and damages to the relationship ensues. Isolation for elevation. No one can get in and tear down your wealth of progress.
It takes a great deal of faith, strength, and courage to pull yourself out of financial strain. It is easier to stay bound to a poor mind state. When we have a poor mind state about money, it leaks over into all areas of our lives, especially our relationships. We have to read what's difficult for us to read, and listen to what's difficult for us to hear about financial literacy. It's one of the key things that holds us back from doing what we want to do in life. We are programmed about money as small children, when we are told there isn't enough money, we see that it isn't enough money, it causes a fear inside of us in regards to money. It is up to us to break the program or it will never change.
It takes practice to eliminate a mind state of lack. I counteract this feeling with a gratitude journal and daily affirmations. Every time I feel a thought of lack coming, I state, "God is my instant and everlasting supply, all my needs are met at every moment of point and time and space, and all of my bills are paid in Divine order, through Divine love."
I pray in the present moment like it's already done. I state, "I am grateful that all my bills are paid in Divine order through Divine love," "I am grateful that I have more than enough to meet my needs and help others," "Thank you God for circulating love in my life," "I am grateful that I am enjoying perfect health," and I could go on. I say over 40 affirmations a day, and they are all memorized because I say them continuously. One way to reprogram the subconscious mind is through repetition. That is how we learned our abc's, it's how we remember songs, and our reactions to things that we experience.
There is no way to change, and to remain changed without changing the subconscious mind programming.
This is why people win the million dollar lottery and lose it all, it's the reason why people lose weight, and gain it back, and most of all, it's the reason why we return to things, situations, and people who are no good for us. We return back to the program, the program is what's familiar. We must know that we deserve the best and the best only comes to us. We must change the program, shift the paradigm, break the generational curse.
"You can also do the following exercise:
Think about a result you’re getting that you don’t want and ask yourself what behaviors or habits are causing that result.
Write the behavior out in crystal clear detail.
Ask yourself what habit or behavior is the polar opposite of the behavior you just identified.
Write out the new behavior on another sheet of paper.
Burn the paper that contains the bad habit (as a symbolic gesture).
Write the positive habit out four or five times a day. Read it frequently. You will eventually lodge that idea in your subconscious mind.
Once it begins to take root, it takes the power away from the bad habit and the bad habit actually dies from lack of nourishment. Then, the deposited one takes over." Bob Proctor
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Raquel Givens Jones
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